By: Pastor Ed Young
Posted: February 13, 2017
From Series: 2Gether
Ephesians 5:33, “Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband”.
Aloha is a commonly known greeting for both hello and goodbye in Hawaii. But the deeper expression of this word has some powerful meaning behind it. It’s a Hawaiian greeting that welcomes the other person into their space by sharing the breath of life. Two greet each other by pressing the bridge of their noses together and breathing in. What a beautiful expression! Let’s put this word picture in the context of marriage. It is a special moment when a man and woman invite each other to share life together. But this mutual spatial invitation is just the beginning. There are intentional steps that must be taken in order for this covenant relationship to thrive.
In the scripture above, the Bible gives the two most vital components to a foundationally strong marriage – love and respect. When a husband displays love for his wife and honors her, it gives her a sense of security and affirmation. Likewise, when a wife shows honor and respect to her husband, he too feels empowered and affirmed. These components bind like relational glue, producing the desire to learn more and more about each other’s likes and dislikes. Biblically founded marriages work—they are everlasting. What a great challenge to continuously study your mate in order to keep taking the relationship to a “holy notha’ level”!
Thank God for your spouse. Ask Him to open your eyes and heart to learn more about them each day. If you are single, ask God to continue growing you into the person He has created you to be, so that you can be prepared for whom He is preparing for you.
Take a moment to let your spouse know you are thinking of them. Share affirming and loving words via text, phone, a handwritten note, face-to-face, or some other form of communication. If you are single, take a moment to encourage someone close to you, letting them know they are loved.
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